[support] swf tools, flv on other domain

[Richard Bennett]

Hi,
I setup the swftools module and all works fine.
Now I would like to host the flv files on a faster server, I have tried  
adding :
  $conf = array(
     'swftools_media_url' => 'http://flvsite.com'
   );
to my settings.php file, but the movies won't load.
I figured that flash might be restricted to loading flvs from the same  
domain, so I put the whole flash_media_player directory on the other host,  
and set the Default flash player path to :
http://flvsite.com/flash_media_player and I tried
http://flvsite.com

but the File handling page alsays shows
Flash Media Player - Jeroen Wijering - Missing

Does anyone know the best procedure for hosting flvs on a remote server?
Or should i try one of the many other media modules?

Thanks.